Comments on: Other People’s Business

By: NAIRN * SIRHIM

NAIRN * SIRHIM — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 14:47:43 +0000

HELLO * FAMILY > FRUM > KING * ZAIRZ … . . .

By: Oddie M

Oddie M — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 01:45:56 +0000

lmao..this cracks me up so much cos this is so true…
it is sad but definitely true…OMG!

By: Mercedes

Mercedes — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:02:50 +0000

Do Nigerians really do that…trying to find out if they know you by asking you questions? wow

By: Mercedes

Mercedes — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:01:01 +0000

lols that’s funny
“Nigerian woman: Chima…..chima……where are you from?
Grace: Houston
Nigerian woman: Is you fatha Emmanuel?
Grace: Yes” haha
Nigerians are funny people oo. Gosh, I love my country!!

By: chayoma

chayoma — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 14:18:48 +0000

TEAM GOSSIP!

No one is off limits oh, when it comes to naija. whether na persin wey u just kokoma see for the first time today, or your best friend. All is fair game.
Nigerian phone convo lasts for hours on end. Word!

What don’t they criticize, clothes, looks, MAKEUP, size, height, shoes, even your significant other….
Tori!

By: Nneka

Nneka — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:57:22 +0000

They also love talking about how ugly someone is, or how fat a person has gotten or how bad their acne is. The same person talking is likely to have pockmarks and weigh 250 lbs. They are so critical of other people sometimes.

By: simplylizzy

simplylizzy — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 05:54:08 +0000

I’m not even going to start on my mom and her gossip topics. She says she doesn’t like going to parties, but when she gets there it’s a freakin gossip fest! She’ll smile in some ladies face (which she just told everyone at her table she doesn’t like) and act like they cool..wtf??

It’s hella embarrassing, actually, when she talks about someone I know right in front of them, but not within audible distance..and I just have to walk away.

Her phone convos..Lord help us all..smh..I’m done. This will go on forever..

By: Vic

Vic — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 19:25:06 +0000

I honestly don’t know if Nigerian women could survive without gossiping. I feel like it is a part of their livelihood. They talk about family, friends, people at work…doesn’t matter. And it is so tru about Nigerians always trying to figure out if they know you. Once you tell a Nigerian your name, you see that look in their eyes like they are trying to figure out if they know that last name or not.
Grace: Hello, my name is Grace
Nigerian woman: Grace what?
Grace: Grace Chima
Nigerian woman: Chima…..chima……where are you from?
Grace: Houston
Nigerian woman: Is you fatha Emmanuel?
Grace: Yes

By: Desiree

Desiree — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 02:44:17 +0000

Kingsley opareke, i dont know u o..but ur name sounds familiar..haha.. cos u said that everyone in here kinda know each other, and i am giving u a befitting reply capable of a naija.

anywayz… do y’all recall this one..naija will tell u ..”u kind of look familiar.. are u the son of.. or the daughter of..” or
“u sound familiar, do u know me?” if you answer no, they will continue “so what are u studyn now? cos me i got a masters in bla bla… and i am currently in London getting my PhD in bla bla..” they are giving you information incase you decide to talk about them later.. just as they plan to talk about u when they get home.. o boi…

By: Uju4eva

Uju4eva — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 04:54:04 +0000

Wow, this topic hit close to home. It’s so crazy. My mom was talking about how at her workplace, this woman seen this other woman’s daughter at the gas station working. They were talking about her and mocking and such. And Im like, what is the big deal? What about it who cares? its bull. Everyone gossips, but when Nigerian Gossips its the ENNND of the world!

By: Kingsley Oparaeke

Kingsley Oparaeke — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 15:48:08 +0000

Yup, other folk’s business spread faster than a disease in the Nigerian community. The Nigerian community is so close nit in America that you have no idea who knows you and what they may know about you. If you tell anybody something followed by “by they way, you can’t tell ANYBODY this”, that is translated to “just tell one other person that’s close to you”. It’s as if folks don’t realize the small degree of separation there is in the Nigerian Community, the information can easily come back around full circle. If you are a Nigerian reading this right now, I can bet you either know me, know someone that knows me or know someone that claims they know me. You probably know everyone that has commented on this site with less than 3 degrees of separation.

By: Lulu

Lulu — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:01:21 +0000

LOL so true about the last part! I have so many childhood friends that I don’t even see anymore because ~something happened~ with my parents and their parents which somehow forbids me from talking to them. Vicious cycle of ridiculousness lol!

By: P.A.

P.A. — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 05:47:49 +0000

What’s sad that this is so true…NOBODY IS OFF LIMITS….
What is funny is that the same person that your mother could be yannin’ to about someone else, will turn around and probably talk about your mother to said person…and the cycle continues!

What is even funnier is when your mother and said person are at the same function and you ask your mother why she is beefin’ with Aunty _____” and she quickly tells you to “sharrap your mouth”. She then denies there is said beef when she was just on the phone with your other aunty the night before talking maaaad greazy about her. SMH.

Once that beef is established, if you are a young child and were friends with that aunty’s kids, you might as well kiss those friendships goodbye. Somehow she will make you feel that you should have beef with her kids and even stop your father from talking to your uncle…smh again

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uberVU - social comments — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 22:07:58 +0000

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By: Abi Agbabiaka

Abi Agbabiaka — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:12:31 +0000

LOL!!! Sooo true.

By: Lulu

Lulu — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:58:24 +0000

LMAO TEAM GOSSIP. XD

By: Rosie

Rosie — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:58:17 +0000

First!

ha ha ha. This is why I limit my convo with naija people. Dey talk too much jare.